M&H only makes and sells harnesses not connectors.
So I went to J&D and while I was able to locate used male and female connectors from the parts bin and bone yard, they wanted $80 for the pair. Balls to that, so I called up Zac at
Speed Scene Wiring in TX. They're the ones who made my custom harness. He's pretty sure he has them new and will check on Monday after I send him some pics. Shipped $25-35 for the pair. That's more reasonable!