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Retracted. Talking with my lesbian friend about it, she had a very interesting perspective. More later... Also, vanilla coke plus bacardi, winning.
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No, misery and conflict are not necessarily equivalent terms. Suffering would be closer. It's an interesting question, but one of semantics really. If the rates of depression and suicide, especially among LGBT teens is any indication, misery is probably the right word in their case. |
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Cont. So basically, the reason we identify with a certain sex is visual, sexual, and cultural. So we should exclude sexuality, since not all gays are transgender.
So we're left with cultural and visual. Visual, well no, transgender people arent born looking like the opposite sex, so that cant be the cause of their feelings. So cultural? Thats whats left. Can a desire to wear dresses and drink pina coladas really be strong enough to make a guy want to cut his dick off and grow boobs? No. Its a combination of factors that makes us feel masculine or feminine. But most of those factors arent strong enough to cause a need for a total flip flop. Look at Richard Simmons versus Clint Eastwood. Simmons is about as feminine on the male scale as it gets, but he doesnt want to be a girl. So feminine cultural preferences and sexuality arent enough to cause the want to be different. Simmons mainly feels like a man because he LOOKS like a man. So since transgender people dont identify with what they see in the mirror, what is the cause of their feeling this way? Its beyond visual, beyond cultural, beyond sexual, whats left?! IMHO - Psychological trauma. |
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There is sexual orientation (which sex(es) you like to have sex with) There is gender, which is a psychological/cultural phenomena, but related to sex. There is no "sex identity" since you're either male or female (leaving out hermaphrodites, etc.) There IS gender identity, which crosses between what you are and what you think you are. That's the issue. When they don't match, you have a problem. The harder question is why do people think they're something they're not (in a physiological sense)? Well that probably has both physiological foundations itself (brain function) and metaphysical/cognitive issues interacting. My simple answer is that so long as people are not harming others, which I define pretty narrowly, I would not act against them, but accept them as they present themselves. This is key. My only "warning" is to explore that it's not a cover for something else. You can't step back from sexual alteration, especially male -> female, and it would be tradgedy if it was really something else that was eating at you. For this reason, I think it's generally good/safe advice to avoid sex chang operations until full adulthood, which is mid twenties or later. These are my opinions and arguments, based on my imperfect information. |
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Two interesting things I learned tonight that made me question my position: First, my lesbian friend indicated in this conversation that her gf kinda sorta wishes she was a guy. A lesbian that Ive been hanging out with for years (Im friends with her too) is... I guess verging on transgender. This makes me wonder how many gays out there feel this way, and maybe cultural choices and sexual preferences have more to do with gender identity than I realize. Second, she pointed out that without having felt "it" myself, its difficult for me to single out what a gender identity feeling is in the first place. It may be sub conscious and taken for granted. |
One more week of school. Then I get to work on the cars, feels like forever since I've done so.
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So yeah, it's happening
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5.3 Got a smokin deal on it.
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He's going to build a turbo 383 LS Honda Pilot.
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I would drive a FC/FD Rx7 or a 240SX with an LS in it.
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I get the feeling this monk might be kind of a bad ass.
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Guy, I think you should drop into a GT, Rons generation. I feel like that would piss people off more than putting it in a Fox, plus those cars are sexy bitches.
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Hey Ben, does a .45 bullet flare out to be the exact same diameter as the shell it came out of? If so, what is the absolute longest .45 bullet I could get?
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Bullet OD = Shell OD? Longest 45 bullet (only, w/o shell)? |
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This is a 38, the head is a smaller diameter than the shell, so that it can fit into the shell. Some bullets flare out, like a dick head, and become about the same diameter as their shell.
If I were asking about a 38, the answer to my question would be no. I figured Ben would know since he handles bullets a lot. Attachment 882 |
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